This story both sickened and enraged me. It is an unacceptable situation that should be reviewed, discussed and dealt with strongly, passionately and quickly. It should never have come to an end where the only way out was suicide. Parents, teachers and fellow students stepped in to try and help Phoebe Prince. The administration failed her, failed her parents, and failed not only a community but the entire world at large.
And yet, not one administrator faces criminal charges. They effectively ruined not only the life of Phoebe Prince, but the life of those 9 other children who should have known better but didn't. These administrators will go on with their lives, their own families, their jobs while life has stopped for Phoebe. Phoebe's family will suffer with the knowledge that their efforts could not save her, because the support system that is supposed to be available in the public education system is sorely lacking.
Where do we go from here? Where is President Obama who preaches that every child is responsible for their own education? Where are the plans to create ongoing mandatory training for teachers, administrators and students to deal with and stop the bullying that goes on in every school across this country? We send aid to other countries whenever there is a serious situation that requires it, but yet we cannot stop to help our own people.
It is not only the responsibility of the public educational system to provide a safe, comfortable learning environment for our children. It is our responsibility as parents, as citizens of this country to demand our rights be protected and upheld.
What can you do? It only takes one person to start change. There are millions of parents in the United States. If even 10% of them demanded a change to the system, it would snowball into a country wide change of the ways things are done.
Meet with your PTA, PTO, PTSA or whatever parent organization is at your child's school. Demand that they use some of those funds you raise every year for them to devote to training the people who are educating our children.
Write your Governor & State Representatives to demand a bill that will make this type of training mandatory in every school, public or private across the United States.
Write to the President of this country and demand that he fight as hard for our children and an end to the ignorance of our school administrators as he did for the Health Reform Bill.
Hold your school accountable. Do not make one phone call and expect the world to be made right. Follow up, follow through. Demand that you be kept updated on the situation. Talk to your child's teachers as well as the administrators. Every teacher and school administrator now has email. If you can't call, email them. Make sure that your child is getting the attention that he or she needs to not only survive school, but to excel and to put any type of bullying behind them permanently.
To sum it all up - GET INVOLVED IN YOUR CHILD'S LIFE. The only person who can make sure things are made right for our youth is us.